people who are actually happy- whats up with them? Everyone has their own story, and I know that sometimes it's hard not to compare your story to someone else's you know- even Edgar Allen Poe had a longstanding rivalry with Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (a poet) back in the day. Sometimes the people who are unhappy take out that unhappiness on those who are happy. But hold on a just a second, that's a whole lot of happy and unhappiness going on right there- so what IS the definition of happy?
HAPPY:
1. delighted, pleased, or glad, as over a particular thing.
2. characterized by or indicative of pleasure, contentment, or joy
"Happy- being characterized by joy and gladness but only if your past and present circumstances allow you to be and you have a great life which enables you to feel so."
no one would be happy if that's what happiness was, thank the Lord that it isn't! What some people don't seem to realize is that it's much harder to have a good attitude and be happy than it is to be depressed all the time. Gee, I just get depressed when I don't feel like I have the energy to do anything else. That sounds pretty lazy right? believe me I know. But before you start getting frustrated about me not knowing what I'm talking about- I also know this isn't the case for everyone. Some people have things going on in their lives that it seems no one should ever have to go through, and those people have reason to be depressed all the time (or most of the time)... Um, no. sorry, maybe that sounds like the right answer for a lot of people today but it's not the truth, it would be a lot EASIER if it were, but it's not.
Like anything in life, it comes with time. a priceless treasure doesn't happen over night, it happens with time. Happiness is a treasure. NO ONE is happy all year: 12 months, 52 weeks, 365 days, 8,765 hours, 525,949 minutes, 31,536,000 seconds. Just try being happy on a hard day- you know how hard it is. But nothing worth having comes easily. I'm not just talking about the happiness that shows, but the happiness that is a part of who you are. because, lets face it, it's not as if while our parents are fighting or our friends are hurting us we walk around with a smile on our face all happy. No, I'm also talking about the kind that is still there while going through the trials we all face. The kind that still gives us hope and helps carry us through those times of loneliness- if you keep reading, I'll tell you how you can have this kind of hapiness.
Other then some other things going on in my life, here's the quote that sparked this blog post:
"I like living. I have sometimes been
wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through
it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand
thing."
-Agatha Christie
Anyone
and everyone is capable of doing something great in this world, I don't
care what anyone else has told you out of seeming good-will or out of
anger. The Greatest things done are made up of the smallest of things. A war isn't won by an army, it's won by individual, courageous soldiers that chose to be a part of something greater than themselves or their past. I
know we are kinda getting onto a different subject, but how would any
of the accomplishments that helped change the world happen, if everyone
involved decided to just get bogged down in the sorrows of their life
and never reach outside of that? So you see, Happiness isn't just what
one feels but what one DOES and how one LIVES.
And outside of knowing Jesus Christ, this isn't possible. You can have the perfect life, or maybe not, and just try to be happy- but something will always be missing. That hole you feel in your very being? that can't be filled with the plastic, fragile, worldly happiness. It
can only be filled with the happiness that comes with a new heart and
soul that lives, breaths and longs to do everything to the glory of the
one who changed it. This entire post is useless without the working of
the Holy King, GOD. So, if you want the kind of happiness that never leaves you, even in the times when the world seems to shrink in on you and the darkness of the evil in this life caves in on top of you: pick up your Bible, drop to your knees and HE will save you. God will give you the Happiness you seek, when you seek HIM.
"These
things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the
world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome
the world."
-John 16:33
"It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness."-Charles Spurgeon
"If you’re going through hell, keep going."
-Winston Churchill
"The three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love and something to hope for."
-Addison
"Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn't know you left open."
~John Barrymore
First and foremost I’m a daughter of the King, Jesus Christ. He gave me a
new heart and mind that yearns to live and breathe for His glory. I
always talk about my family first: I come from a relatively large
family, eight (including myself) to be precise. The fact that four of
those siblings are older brothers definitely has helped shape me into
who I am today, though, my only younger brother has probably shaped me
the most. Thankfully, I was blessed with two younger sisters as well;
one of them (second to youngest) has Down-syndrome. And let me tell you,
she is the most caring, loving, and sweet-hearted person I know. We
adopted quite a few years ago, but it became a terrible situation and we
had to dissolve the adoption. Those years were really hard.
I’ve enjoyed many things through the years, starting from swimming, to dance, to horseback riding, to track, to photography, to volunteering at animal rescues, all of which were/are amazing. I’ve always been able to find beauty and wonder in the small things in God’s creation, maybe that’s how I manage to be happy the majority of the time, because how can one be depressed surrounded by it? Coming to the end of my high-school days, I’ve had to learn to keep my attitude how I want to feel and not let it be controlled by the situation I’m in or others attitudes. I hope this blog post is a blessing to you and I pray that with God’s help you will be able to as well.
I’ve enjoyed many things through the years, starting from swimming, to dance, to horseback riding, to track, to photography, to volunteering at animal rescues, all of which were/are amazing. I’ve always been able to find beauty and wonder in the small things in God’s creation, maybe that’s how I manage to be happy the majority of the time, because how can one be depressed surrounded by it? Coming to the end of my high-school days, I’ve had to learn to keep my attitude how I want to feel and not let it be controlled by the situation I’m in or others attitudes. I hope this blog post is a blessing to you and I pray that with God’s help you will be able to as well.
Thanks so much Miranda for sharing your writing talent! Miranda is my great friend, and one of the kindest people you will ever meet! Hop on over to her super-fun blog, "Adventures are Funny Things", and leave her some comment love!
